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"Good communication helps to build a therapeutic relationship"


Building relationships is central to nursing work and communication skills can be improved by avoiding jargon and ensuring patients are not labelled, says Sarah Collins

Keywords: Communication, Jargon, Nurse-patient relationship

The importance of communication in health care hit the headlines recently at the British Medical Association’s annual consultants’ conference earlier this month. Jargon, said the doctors, could harm patients’ care.

The following anecdote from my own experience illustrates the dangers of poor communication:

John*, a man in his 30s, is in bed on a coronary surgery ward. Older men occupy the other beds. It is Christmas Day. The nurses are having a party; their office door opens in snaps of laughter. The man in the bed next to him has no visitors. John wonders if he’d like to play cards, but the nurses have not offered to play. John’s mouth has been fixed in a tight line since his family came bearing presents; he cannot smile for fear of crying. He holds a morphine pump in one hand, and the phone in the other. The nurse in charge has not succeeded in persuading the doctor to come, so John is trying himself. The man opposite is calling out, but the nurses avoid him, and when John points out that he wants someone, a nurse replies: ‘He’s just demented.’

Discussions with colleagues help to alleviate jargon, and allow barriers to communication to be viewed and addressed

Without exception, patients’ experiences are influenced by how care is delivered. Through communication, a patient can: be reassured; be put at ease; be taken seriously; understand their illness more fully; voice their fears and concerns; feel empowered; be motivated to follow a medication regimen; express a desire to have treatment (or not); be given time and treated with respect.

Effective communication is, therefore, more than delivering quality, patient-centred care. It is also the vehicle through which patients’ involvement is optimised.

Communication is therapeutic. Building relationships is the cornerstone of nursing work, particularly with patients with learning disabilities; communication is a prerequisite to that process. It can also be life-saving. If a patient is informed about what symptoms to mention, a cancer is more likely to be diagnosed and treated in time.

Nurses’ role

Nurses spend the most time and have most contact with patients, doing ‘connecting work’ that complements doctors’ consultations. Nurses provide the ‘glue’ – escorting a patient into the consulting room; identifying with challenges in adhering to lifestyle changes by reporting their own experience; allowing patients to disclose concerns not shared with doctors; being chatty; sharing a joke; and providing explanations where doctors’ communication has failed.

The following example from my own research, where a nurse spoke about communication, illustrates this last point about doctors: ‘I watch my patients in a ward round, and they sit there and go “Yes doctor, no doctor, yes doctor”, and then I make a point of going and saying: “Have you understood?” “No, I didn’t understand a word of that, nurse, I’m really worried”, and the whole story comes out.’

Nurturing these qualities requires understanding of the essential ingredients of communication. Making meaningful use of ‘communication skills’ demands appreciation of the contexts in which skills are enacted in practice, to be able to translate them. 

Environments are challenging: a busy hospital ward, a crowded waiting room, a lounge with the television constantly on. Language can be a barrier: labels attached to individuals such as ‘just demented’ crystallise judgemental attitudes, standing in the way of getting to know patients.

How can nurses improve their communication, and maintain its effectiveness? Jargon needs to be acknowledged, so that it can be avoided, or where necessary, explained to patients. Discussions with colleagues help to alleviate jargon, and allow barriers to communication to be viewed and addressed. Most of all, talking with patients, for the sake of conversation and company, aids well-being and recovery.

Sarah Collins is lecturer in healthcare communication, Department of Health Sciences and Hull York Medical School, University of York.

*The patient’s name has been changed.

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Readers' comments (5)

  • This reflects what happens in my clinical area. A skilled observer can quickly identify the distressed patient and potentially difficult situations.

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  • from Anonymous | 24-Apr-2012 12:28 pm

    I meant to add at the end of my comment above that if a nurse does not communicate effectively and build effective therapeutic relationships and good interpersonal relationships with others they are working with they will also derive very poor job satisfaction. It is up to each and everyone to reach out to others with good communications skills which build bridges between them and keep everybody concerned well informed and updated and to receive feedback as well.

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  • The article isnt saying that communication is not is just stating that communication helps towards a theraputic relationship to build patients trust with nurses. This article isnt inventing a tool to use in nursing it is just describing how communication is important in nursing. Good communication skills should already be in a nurses nature but unfortunately their are some nurses that dont use them. Articles like this are really goid for students training to become nurses and other professions too, to use in their work as a reference.

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  • tizau  mekonennn

    it is a good for anything comunication

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  • Good communication is the vehicle to an effective nursing care

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